Most women fake Orgasm! And that’s a fact! Most men cannot understand the concept of Foreplay is yet another reason for them to fake it!
Warning. Discretionary Content. This article may contain material that is either inappropriate or offensive to some audiences.
A Closer look at the scene
Women often and obviously require more time to get into the mood than men do. It’s a common fact that they are described as ’irons’ they take time to get warm. As against this theory, most men are like light bulbs. The very thought of making love makes them go weak in the knees and lifts more than their spirits. Most women on being questioned on their preferences mention that they’d prefer a longer foreplay than the main course of the sexual act itself. In case you did not know Foreplay is all the caressing, kissing and simulating that goes on prior to the intercourse!
On being questioned on ’the aspects’ of sexual activity that women wanted to improve, most of them, a good 70 per cent wanted a better start to a satisfying end and only a few of them wanted a better orgasm! There are few who understand that by delaying ejaculation, guys although might feel themselves slowing down bit, it’s also important to note that you are actually speeding up the lady’s sped and once she takes over both man and woman mutually can meet at a single point of contact that may prove beneficial for both.
People generally use their grey cells a lot more than required, or so it seems. The word ‘Foreplay’ may not necessarily mean skin to skin seductions, or even kissing, hugging, licking, touching etc., it has all to do with anything that allows both you as well as the lady to set the scene, much before you get undressed. It may be a combination of some acts or a mixture of all, it all depends on the way you want to treat your lady or even vice versa.
According to me, "foreplay is an experimenting phase", an experiment that can go on for life, if you need to live healthy! Moreover, it need not start from the time you jump into your bed! Many a times it may start even before you hit the bed! Most sexologists suggest that you develop certain sex signals with your partner so that he/ she is well aware of what you guys are getting into. Another benefit of this may also be that in case she is the innovative types, both of you might end up in multiple orgasms, inducing even greater sleep than usual.
An important thing that men tend to neglect is the fact that women take time to get into the ‘mood’. With a great variety of sexual paraphernalia, it’s not uncommon to find sexy lingerie, silk blouses, fragrances and even certain kinds of food to enhance your sexual fervours. But more often than not women tend to face a common problem of inattentive husbands or lovers that makes them take the time to set the scene on fire.
Changing Tactics
It’s important to understand that women are of the feeling rung of humans than men. So if you need to have an interesting night stand, you need to bear in mind the advance preparation that goes along with it. Nine times out of ten men seek refuge in not being able to satisfy their women, because of foreplay. They also blame women to be using up too much in the fore act rather than taking a direct plunge! Many women on the other hand tend to make assumptions that their men know the exact ‘time’ when it’s not true! A good way of changing these so-far conceivable problems is communication. As daring as you might be, this is one link to the missing chain that can solve a plethora of your problems.
Telling each other what gives the other pleasure can be the start of an excellent foreplay session. Of course there are sexual fantasies that can be told as well, then there are ways to caress, hold and kiss that form the second level of tactics that help in too! Either ways if explicit sexual material holds no good, then you can rely on gossip, and being a woman’s domain whispering these makes a world of difference giving rise to a series of actions, further proclaiming that actions speak louder than words!
Warning. Discretionary Content. This article may contain material that is either inappropriate or offensive to some audiences.
A Closer look at the scene
Women often and obviously require more time to get into the mood than men do. It’s a common fact that they are described as ’irons’ they take time to get warm. As against this theory, most men are like light bulbs. The very thought of making love makes them go weak in the knees and lifts more than their spirits. Most women on being questioned on their preferences mention that they’d prefer a longer foreplay than the main course of the sexual act itself. In case you did not know Foreplay is all the caressing, kissing and simulating that goes on prior to the intercourse!
On being questioned on ’the aspects’ of sexual activity that women wanted to improve, most of them, a good 70 per cent wanted a better start to a satisfying end and only a few of them wanted a better orgasm! There are few who understand that by delaying ejaculation, guys although might feel themselves slowing down bit, it’s also important to note that you are actually speeding up the lady’s sped and once she takes over both man and woman mutually can meet at a single point of contact that may prove beneficial for both.
People generally use their grey cells a lot more than required, or so it seems. The word ‘Foreplay’ may not necessarily mean skin to skin seductions, or even kissing, hugging, licking, touching etc., it has all to do with anything that allows both you as well as the lady to set the scene, much before you get undressed. It may be a combination of some acts or a mixture of all, it all depends on the way you want to treat your lady or even vice versa.
According to me, "foreplay is an experimenting phase", an experiment that can go on for life, if you need to live healthy! Moreover, it need not start from the time you jump into your bed! Many a times it may start even before you hit the bed! Most sexologists suggest that you develop certain sex signals with your partner so that he/ she is well aware of what you guys are getting into. Another benefit of this may also be that in case she is the innovative types, both of you might end up in multiple orgasms, inducing even greater sleep than usual.
An important thing that men tend to neglect is the fact that women take time to get into the ‘mood’. With a great variety of sexual paraphernalia, it’s not uncommon to find sexy lingerie, silk blouses, fragrances and even certain kinds of food to enhance your sexual fervours. But more often than not women tend to face a common problem of inattentive husbands or lovers that makes them take the time to set the scene on fire.
Changing Tactics
It’s important to understand that women are of the feeling rung of humans than men. So if you need to have an interesting night stand, you need to bear in mind the advance preparation that goes along with it. Nine times out of ten men seek refuge in not being able to satisfy their women, because of foreplay. They also blame women to be using up too much in the fore act rather than taking a direct plunge! Many women on the other hand tend to make assumptions that their men know the exact ‘time’ when it’s not true! A good way of changing these so-far conceivable problems is communication. As daring as you might be, this is one link to the missing chain that can solve a plethora of your problems.
Telling each other what gives the other pleasure can be the start of an excellent foreplay session. Of course there are sexual fantasies that can be told as well, then there are ways to caress, hold and kiss that form the second level of tactics that help in too! Either ways if explicit sexual material holds no good, then you can rely on gossip, and being a woman’s domain whispering these makes a world of difference giving rise to a series of actions, further proclaiming that actions speak louder than words!
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